Meeting the Erotic Self
A transformative journey through the Erotic Blueprints™ framework to uncover your turn-ons, release sexual blocks, and embody your full erotic essence unapologetically.
“The most intimate relation you'll ever have is the one you have with yourself.”Diane von Furstenberg
“The most intimate relationship you'll ever have is the one you have with yourself.”
Diane von Furstenberg
True sexual satisfaction starts long before you're with another person.
It begins with you: with knowing your body, your desires, your turn-ons.
Sex is a “Bring Your Own Orgasm” kinda party.
When you stop waiting for someone else to figure you out and you take full responsibility for your own pleasure, you unlock the capacity for so much more of it.
That’s where the Erotic Blueprints™ framework comes in:
A powerful map to your erotic truth, one that helps you discover the erotic code your unique pleasure was written in so you can experience eroticism that feeds your soul, nourishes your body, and connects you to your full aliveness.
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Your Erotic Life Begins with YOU
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Just like love languages, we each have a different erotic language - a unique pathway to pleasure that awakens us in the right places, melts our resistance, and cracks us open from the inside out.
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But here’s the problem… Most of us were never taught how to connect with our pleasure, let alone speak its language.
Instead, we’ve inherited a mainstream narrative that’s narrow, performative, and disconnected from real, lived experience. It’s no wonder so many of us feel unseen, broken, ashamed or like we’re just not enough. Many of us have found ourselves thinking:
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“I want more pleasure, but I don’t know what actually turns me on and where to start.”
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“I feel disconnected from my body and sex often feels mechanical, performative, or just plain unfulfilling even if pleasurable in the moment.”
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“I want to communicate my desires, but it feels awkward or uncomfortable.”
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“I feel shame or guilt around my desires, and it holds me back.”
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“I want to feel confident, expressive, playful in my sexuality… but I second-guess myself.”
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“I long for my sexual self to feel integrated; not something hidden or separate from the rest of me.”
But the truth is …your body holds its own erotic intelligence. It’s already speaking a language that’s waiting to be heard. Ready to listen?
Your Pleasure Has a Language
Discover
the Erotic Blueprints™
Just like there are 5 love languages, there are 5 Erotic Blueprints™. Each one is a different pathway to fulfilling pleasure; a different way the body says yes, more, please.
Which one do you think you are ?
ENERGETIC
You’re turned on by presence, breath, eye contact, space and anticipation. You don’t even need touch—you feel everything before it happens.
You live for the slow burn that nourishes your senses—candlelight, music, scent, textures, beauty and silky touch that melts over your skin like warm honey. You’re here to savor, not rush.
SENSUAL
SEXUAL
You light up at the raw, direct, primal pulse of turn-on. You want to go there, the climax, no detours, no apologies. It’s clear, direct, and intense erotic heat.
You’re turned on by the taboo, the edge, the exquisite dance of surrender and control. Your arousal is extremely creative and lives in the places others shy away from.
KINKY
SHAPESHIFTER
You want it all. Variety, contrast, depth, and play. You’re turned on by the full erotic spectrum and have an expansive appetite for pleasure and exploration.
Why this Matters:
We’re not all turned on by the same things.
Each of us responds to a unique erotic current.
The Erotic Blueprints™ framework helps you decode your personal erotic map—your turn-ons, your blocks, your desires, and the rhythm your body naturally follows when it comes to pleasure.
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Once you understand your Blueprint…
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You finally see why things work when they do
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You finally understand why they don’t when they don’t
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You realize why you and your (play) partner(s) may not be broken—you might just be speaking different erotic languages
When you stop fumbling in the dark and start seeing the bigger picture of your erotic self, everything starts to make more sense.
You stop guessing, pleasing, or mimicking what you think should feel good.
You now have:
A framework that holds you.
A language to express your needs.
A roadmap to return to again and again.
And once you start living from this place?
You start creating a deeply satisfying erotic life on your own terms.
Pleasure deepens. Confidence grows.
And connection, within yourself and with others, starts to feel deliciously aligned.
Ready to bring this framework into your life ?
Private Coaching: The Erotic Blueprints™ Initiation
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A private, 4-month coaching container designed to offer you the spaciousness to be seen, held, and gently guided in this chapter of your life where you're devoted to reclaiming the fullness of your erotic expression. Here's what you can expect to walk away with from this structured 1-on-1 experience:
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Erotic Self-Awareness
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A complete map of your eroticism: discover your primary Erotic Blueprint™ along with your unique turn-ons, blocks, amplifiers, superpowers, and shadows.
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Release emotional & somatic blocks that limit your capacity for pleasure.
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Reconnect to your body and sensations through somatic practices.
Erotic Skills
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Learn touch skills across all five Erotic Blueprints™ so you can give and receive attuned, satisfying pleasure.
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Use erotic language (“dirty talk”) in ways that feel natural, pleasurable, and genuine to you.
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Explore new Blueprint territory with curiosity and confidence.
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Cultivate an empowered erotic identity to expand your expression in ways that feel playful, powerful, and true.
Erotic Co-Creation
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Become the ultimate lover by learning to sense someone’s Erotic Blueprint™ through subtle cues in everyday interactions.
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Gain confidence in expressing your desires clearly and authentically, making it easier for a partner who’s invested in your pleasure to meet you where you're longing to be met.
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Develop a shared conceptual understanding and vocabulary for more fluid, connected communication around intimacy.
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Understand compatibility on a deeper level: learn what kind of touch, words, and experiences turn on other Blueprints so you can meet lovers in their erotic language.
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Build the skills to troubleshoot when things feel off and understand what’s creating chemistry when things feel deliciously aligned. Use this framework as a lifelong tool for navigating and growing your erotic life.
There will be a mid-way check in to ensure that our work together is moving in the right direction and that you are on track in achieving the goals you’ve set for yourself in the first week. Adjustments will be made based on your feedback.
What's Included?
This coaching program is a mix of 8 pre-recorded thematic modules and 8 live coaching calls with lifetime access to plenty of resources that you can continue to use even after our work together is over. This container comes with:
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Lifetime Premium Membership access to the Erotic Freedom Club platform (valued at $1,990.00 USD): this is where you will find the 8-module program designed to take you through the foundations of the Erotic Blueprints™ framework.
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Bi-weekly 1-on-1 Coaching Calls (valued at $2 500 USD): 8 private bi-weekly online sessions held over the course of 4 months. Each call is about 60 minutes long. You watch the designated pre-recorded module of the week and come to the call to receive coaching to deepen and embody the concept. There will be in-between session support via text for check-ins and accountability.
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The Blueprint Breakthrough Workbook: Exercises and reflections to deepen your learning experience.
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Complimentary Access to the In-Depth Erotic Blueprint™ Quiz: An assessment tool providing a breakdown of your Erotic Blueprint types and percentages, along with a personalized report on your primary Erotic Blueprint.
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5 Erotic Blueprint™ Special Reports: Additional insights and tips related to each erotic blueprint.
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Your Premium Membership gives you access to additional pre-recorded courses on the Erotic Freedom Club platform, monthly coaching calls , and exclusive bonuses and events for Premium members (more details in FAQ).
Your Investment
By the end of this journey, you’ll have met yourself in ways that are raw, tender, and empowering. You’ll understand your patterns and shift them. You’ll feel anchored in your body, not stuck in your head. Your pleasure becomes your compass. Your erotic attunement will sharpen. Your capacity to meet others in an erotic space will expand. Eroticism won’t be something you perform. It will be something you live. Something you feel. Something that ripples into all areas of your life and nourishes it.
Is your body a f*ck yes to this?
Your investment for this transformational journey is: $2 800 USD.
The package is valid for 9 months from the day you sign up, and any unused sessions will expire after this period. You will, however, continue to retain lifetime access to the Erotic Blueprints™ Breakthrough Course and supporting material found on the Erotic Freedom Club platform.
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Is this for you ?
This is for you if...
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You’re an introspective and contemplative soul who’s done personal growth work but your erotic self still feels like the part that’s been left behind not fully explored or developed
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You understand the importance of your sexuality in being a healthy human on all levels of your being - physical, emotional, and spiritual - and you want to deepen into that, even if it feels scary or edgy.
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You have the capacity to invest time, energy, and presence into yourself (there will be homework).
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You value emotional depth and somatic exploration not just the chit chat of the mind.
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You want more confidence and clarity in intimacy.
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You’re ready to explore sex not just as a physical act—but as a portal to vitality, creativity, and truth.
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You cultivate a culture of self responsibility for yourself; you have a voice and you (want to) own it to manifest your vision into reality.
This is NOT for you if...
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You're not interested in a somatic approach for this exploration. Somatic, in an oversimplified way, means we are working with the body and its sensations, rather than just with the mind. This container works with both, but it leans heavier on the somatic sides of things because that’s the missing piece in our culture.
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You’re not interested in self-reflection and don’t want to deal with your emotions.
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You want a passive experience. This is co-created, not a “fix me” container. You are expected to be proactive in doing your homework and giving feedback to shape the unfolding of your own unique experience.
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Your partnership is in an urgent crisis and you expect this 4 month container to fix everything about it. I’m happy to be of emotional support and a guide, but a crisis demands more than learning a framework in a 4 month timeline.
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Your primary motivation for this container is resolving a sexual health concern that is outside of my scope of practice (e.g. perimenopause, menopause, pelvic floor dysfunction, ED, …).
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Not Sure Yet?
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If this is speaking to something inside you, but you're still feeling unsure, let's talk. You can book a discovery call and we can further discuss your current situation. Please come with clarity around the problem you are experiencing or the goals you would like to achieve so I can best help you. The more clarity you bring, the more precision I can offer.
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I’ve never done anything like this before. Is that okay?
Absolutely. You don’t need any previous experience, just a willingness to go deep into your self exploration on all levels of your being and I will be here to guide you through it.
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What if I’m single?
Perfect. This work begins with you. Your erotic life is yours first, and the transformation you cultivate will ripple into all your relationships and facets of your life - present and future. Remember, you’re an erotic being whether you’re in a relationship or not. Cultivate this part of you as you’re single so you can show up fully to play when you have a (play) partner.
Do you work with couples?
Yes. I will see each one of you individually most of the time so you get to have your own process with some sessions that include both of you so you get to put it together.
What’s the time commitment?
Around 4 hrs every 2 weeks (1h for our meeting and 2-3 hours to watch the videos and do your homework).
What if I don’t know my blueprint yet?
It’s okay. There is a free quiz you can take HERE and you will also have a link to take the paid, in-depth, quiz for free when you sign up for this program.
Is this work inclusive of all orientations, genders, and relationship styles?
My practice is queer-inclusive and welcoming of all relationship constellations. That being said, I’m not a polyamory or LGBTQ+ expert. Since these things tend to intersect, if you’re looking for specific guidance about those things in addition to learning the framework, then I’d say this container is not for you.
Is your practice trauma-aware?
Yes, I have training in trauma-aware practices. Everything in this container is an invitation and there is no obligation to do things you don’t want to do. We move at your pace and when you encounter a trigger, you will have the option to work around it or resolved, whichever option you prefer.
Do you offer a refund ?
There are no refunds. There is an interview process prior to signing up to ensure that the learning objectives from this program align with what you’re looking for and that we are a good energetic match for this collaboration. If this isn’t the case, I will try my best to connect you with another practitioner.
What are the additional pre-recorded courses we get as part of the Lifetime Premium Membership to the Erotic Freedom Club?
In addition to the Erotic Blueprint™ Breakthrough Course (which is the foundational course, the one we will use for our coaching together), you get access to these courses:
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Sex Communication Checklist & Course: Tools for effective sexual communication.
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Erotic Secret Sessions Archives: Access to exclusive sessions on various erotic topics.
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Awaken Pleasure Campfires Archives: Archives of intimate discussions on pleasure and sexuality.
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Embody It! Immersions Course: An immersive course to help you embody your Erotic Blueprint™ in everyday life.
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Blueprint Immersions Practices: Guided practices to integrate and embody the concepts of the Erotic Blueprint™.
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Guided Pleasure First Video Library: Videos focused on enhancing pleasure.
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The Lifetime Premium Membership also includes monthly coaching calls as well as exclusive bonuses and events for Premium members.
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What’s the link for the quiz?
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Click HERE. Scroll down for the free version. Please note that you will receive multiple marketing emails once you put your email to receive the results, but you have the option to unsubscribe if that bothers you.
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